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I attribute this partly to my schooling in junior/middle high school and the lack of co-education-which happened in senior high school (by which time I was very much set in my ways and was completely ill-equipped and oblivious to inter-gender relations and creating repartee’s.) I have been told (though I am cynical of the truth in this) that I am pleasing to look at, yet I have nothing to show for such alleged good looks (which are inconsequential anyway, personality is what matters), I have direction and ambition in my life (I have two degrees and am in law-school) and am uncompromising to that end. And I hate to tell you this but guys who are too insecure about themselves to approach women will not induce women into feeling hot and bothered.
Yet for these I feel increasingly frustrated, ignored and unappreciated. If he opens his mouth and he’s rubbish then her attraction will dissapear. If you’re ugly she’s not going to automatically be interested. Your lesson is this: women are beautiful flowers who are on display to attract men.
I will make this very succinct to spare people the agony of reading an entire treatise of why my self-esteem is at a low ebb.
My question is what is it about me that women seem to despise?
So, force yourself to make small talk with EVERYONE! Eventually you learn how to flirt, tease, and excite. It doesn’t take forever, but you will need to do it to see any results. I have never had a girlfriend before and I don’t really go up to random stranger girls I don’t know.
From the dude who’s bagging your groceries, “Hey man, where did you get those shoes? Those interactions bring you a tiny bit more confidence for next time. I may be unattractive, but why do women only go for the “good looking guys ” ? You’re asking a question you already know the answer to.
(b) The Emotional level – he starts giving clues that he’s ready to be emotionally available to you.
For example: women who say, ‘I really feel like I’m falling for you’, too easily and too early.
It gives off an idea that she’s a clingy type who rushes into relationships. Men subconsciously show signs that indicating how evolved your relationship is.
While I can’t be a miracle worker this area I can provide some very common mistakes that women tend to make.
It’s not complete, but it’s definitely a good insight. Many women get involved with men with undesirable habits, and cling to the relationship hoping that he’ll improve with time.
The right thing to do is to use a combination of verbal communication and body language. I may be stating the obvious, but it’s worth repeating: Men aren’t happy in a relationship if the woman isn’t happy herself.